I have been thinking about Mother’s Day and how to phrase my thoughts on the matter.
Truthfully, what we should be celebrating is Healthy Nurture. And the heart of that is Love.
Love crosses the gender and the species divide easily.
What it takes is a Heart Big Enough to love so deeply that it transforms your soul.
You are not the same person as you were before you became a parent.
For mothers of adopted children, it is an emotional, psychological and spiritual truth. In the case of a mother who births children, this is a profound physical truth (which intersects with the other aspects).
Your priorities change. You let go of things you thought were always yours and begin new roles you never imagined.
The quality of fierce love and compassion we celebrate with mothers is really something we should expect from all those who nurture children of all kinds.
For when you see what that Love truly is, the binary drops instantly.
We pedestalize the role but forget that not all mothers necessarily love their children in this way.
Some of the most harmful mothers I have seen have worn that label like a cloak and stifled their children. Nine months of the body protecting a developing being, followed by a lifetime of control.
Some of the most beautiful mothers I have seen are the ones who refused to bring a child into a life that lacked security and safety. Or the ones who grieve a child that did not come to term. They are still mothers.
Some of the kindest and softest expressions of care I have seen come through the hearts of kind fathers, brothers, uncles. It is really not limited to gender.
Some of the most inspiring mothers I have seen chose to devote their love to plants, animals, land … It’s honestly that same quality of Love. And often the least understood as society still judges by outward appearances and not the quality of soul connection.
We really need to see this as a quality that goes beyond what Hallmark cards frame it as being. And in so doing we include so much more.
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Between May 13 and 23, we see an extraordinary lineup of aspects that make it much easier to manifest with Spirit. In the video, I discuss some more esoteric alignments, providing critical context, timing and direction for your efforts.
The 13th, 18th, and 23rd are stand-out dates in particular.
Manifestation is an art in itself, and it requires a lot of inner work and outer alignment with the general movement of things. It is why I do not use the word lightly, but when I do, I mean it 100% .
With Jupiter, Uranus, Venus, and the Sun in Taurus, we see an outpouring of opportunities to re-make how we find abundance, security, stability, and solidity in the world. It is not just about our bank balances but our innermost beliefs of worthiness and value.
We see the importance of choosing the right teachers and guides, relationships, collaborations, sisters, or significant Feminine presences to make the most of this energy. Personal or professional relationships are the vessels through which so much can be created and joy found.
It can be a fantastic energy for those who work with the body, land, music/singing, and anything that emphasizes 5-sensory perception.
Right now, the principle of sustainability is critical, i.e., creating in a way that harmonizes with all without leaving anyone or anything worse off.
It is no longer the logic of the rugged hero carrying others on their back but of a community working together to support those in the greatest need, ensuring everyone’s needs are met.
Whilst it is important to be kind, it is more important to do so in a sustainable manner. We are already seeing what happens when the giver (the Earth, the Feminine) is drained without replenishment.
Jupiter, Uranus, Venus, and the Sun in Taurus currently trine – Black Moon Lilith and Thereus Rx in Virgo – Hylonome Rx & Ceres in Capricorn
This creates a powerful Grand Earth Trine, which facilitates manifestation if we are willing to remember to – Look for the backdoors; always discern between energy and rhetoric – Seek out the hidden agendas, even in those who claim to come purely in nurture, or those who guilt-trip you into service – Be aware of the masking dynamics from those who pedestalize their victimhood – Understand the difference between manifesting from a place of fearing pain and loss rather than faith and love – Recognize the importance of processing emotions like grief or doubt as this can block you from greater potentials – they have their place in life, but it does not need to be the core of your identity and existence.
By exercising discernment in our connections, we can better choose with whom we build (and how).
(I talk about each of these points in greater detail in the video; this is a functional summary. The video also details the dates where these aspects are most strongly highlighted.)
Jupiter, Uranus, Venus, and the Sun in Taurus also currently – inconjunct the Galactic Center at 27 Sagittarius – sextile Neptune at 29 Pisces
This reinforces the importance of looking at your teachers, beliefs, paradigms, and conceptual maps. If you are not experiencing the life your mind wishes, revisit your inner framework. Also note that the material experiences of life (poverty, relative comfort, superfluous abundance) also influence our perceptions and potential biases.
There is an entire discussion to be had here with privilege and the perpetuation of certain myths within spiritual discourse that reinforce inequality…
For now, we move to the next alignment:
The sextile to Neptune is one that I am the most hopeful for as these alignments effectively provide a potential bridge between Heaven and Earth, Spirit and Matter. We must be diligent in learning and coming to peace with our karmic lessons in this incarnation to unravel more layers.
That requires the courage to truly face yourself. Everything that you were, are, and can be. That is when awareness truly transforms.
The closer we get to a more Authentic Self, the closer we align with the Will of the Divine.
There is no limit to what can be manifested, but always seek to align with the Divine Will (however you understand it) and the principle of no harm, be it to yourself or others.
As I learnt from my mentor, I would recommend adding the phrase ‘under grace’ to whatever prayers or intention-setting you do at this time. This can go a long way in naturally aligning your intentions with the larger flow of grace that is available to us all.
If you are drawn to work with me now, I suggest the Changemaker Session. This is an excellent fit for those who do not see where their beliefs and material outcomes lack alignment – and how to harmonize both where relevant.
For those who wish to be heard in a more dialogic format, go for the Soul-Conversation session instead.
I wish you all much love during this time of high potential.
Manifest from your Heart and your innermost connection with Spirit. Be Discerning and draw the line where need be. And Surrender the rest to the Divine.
Blessings and Love
Dr. Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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It’s an important day to be cognizant of our strengths and vulnerabilities and what constitutes an energetic backdoor. With Ceres trined the Sun and Thereus, we can even find this backdoor through dynamics of service and nurture. Whilst it’s good to help and be helped, it’s important to see that there are no agendas either way.
With Eros opposed the Galactic Center, we do see the potential for real intimacy but only if we willing to look past the glitzy illusions and streams of mental chatter. Don’t fall for the triggers. Sit with it and look at what is real, vs a passing flash in the karmic pan. You choose your path.
Discernment now will help you especially between May 13-18 where we will see multiple alignments that facilitate manifestation. Do your due diligence now so you can make the most of these days. I’ll follow up with a video on this later on.
If choosing to work with me, pick the Changemaker session as that is the vibe of the time. Session Link: http://www.theskypriestess.as.me
Blessings and Love
Dr Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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The video explains why the last week of April was so intense (from an astrological perspective) and what that implies for us as individuals and as part of a larger collective.
The key alignment in question was Mars-conjunct-Neptune-in-Pisces.
Usually, this alignment is insufficient to explain the sheer level of extreme meteorological events across the planet (multiple tornadoes in the US, Saudi Arabia, and China + hailstones + flooding) in such a concentrated window of time.
Politically, we also saw the igniting of political activism and non-violent protest across US campuses, holding their institutions accountable for their support and complicity in the Gaza genocide. The flame that was lit has yet to be extinguished and only appears to be gaining momentum.
So – why would Mars and Neptune bring all this up so intensely?
It was because this is the final time we see this conjunction in Pisces in our lifetimes.
The next time Mars conjuncts Neptune in Pisces will be in 2176!
Mars is action, movement, the embodied use of will, and the connection to the masculine (yang) archetype. Neptune and Pisces deal with karma, spirituality, energy dynamics, vulnerability, escapism, projection, inspiration, Divine Grace, miracles, etc.
The combination brings out what has been hidden from the depths of the psyche as it taps into the collective unconscious. The severity of the weather is a fractal representation of that process.
So what do you do about it?
There is not much that a single person can do to direct the collective as a whole. That is best left to Faith in whatever we understand as a Higher Power.
However, what you can do is to continue to stay receptive to what is happening around you and to navigate things through Faith.
Everyone’s path is different, so what that specifically means for you will also be different.
For some, it is continuing to chop wood and carry water as part of an established routine, come what may.
For others, it is finding the strength to do that in the face of grief, loss, death, and uncertainty.
It is a time that can lead to deep disillusionment, inspiration, loss, creativity, birth, death, and rebirth – or all of the above.
In the video, I also talk about how these events led to a situation in my own life where I had to maintain that line of protection for myself and my family. It’s something that has led to a lot of personal grief, but I know that I did what I could to be kind whilst protecting my loved ones.
We have witnessed a foreshadowing of Saturn’s and Neptune’s energies as they move through Pisces. We are in for a whirlwind of transformation and must be willing to dig deep and pull out what still clings to an old way of being.
Sometimes, a gentler method works, but sometimes, it can be incredibly harsh.
We talk about this and more. Enjoy!
Dr. Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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As promised, here is our experiential sharing, analysis, and reflection on an extremely complex, challenging, and rewarding pilgrimage. We have several members of the core group present, offering a nuanced, multi-layered, and profoundly moving discussion on the various places we visited.
I am grateful to everyone who consented to be recorded on the video and for the T-23 members who came to bear witness.
Our perspective comes from the heart, the discerning mind, and the trusting Spirit. We each have spent years in our own ways in nature, sacred sites, or simply with ourselves to embody that Feminine connection within.
The Sacred Feminine for me is in all things – it is not limited to any gender or biological experience, though different bodies experience it differently. This must also be acknowledged.
We experienced so much in such a short time, and truthfully, none of us are the same – in a good way.
There has been a profound death and rebirth for all of us in different ways and a profound sense of self-acceptance.
There is grace, there is Love.
There is also legitimate rage and grief.
There is the calling out of what is no longer in alignment.
And the courage to embrace what is.
The work is not just about the symbols, shrines, and institutions that claim to house the Sacred Feminine in one culture, but there are parallels drawn to other cultures. It is also a deeply political analysis, as one cannot talk about compassion and nurture without considering fundamental issues of justice.
This recognition of both in a single breath has been the hallmark of my work for many years now, and it should not surprise anyone.
Whilst we do not claim to speak for others who may have their own experiences at these locations, what we share is nothing but Love. And that is the place that all come from.
Every location, event, and synchronicity was guided by higher hands from the moment this pilgrimage was conceived.
I am so moved and grateful to have had this experience with such a stellar constellation of beings.
Enjoy the discussion – and thank you all for doing your part in supporting this immense undertaking. This was truly a community effort.
Blessings,
Dr. Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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Hello lovelies! A lot is going on over the next few days. I wanted to give you a heads-up so you can make the most of the energy. This is a highly condensed discussion but covers all the salient points:
April 25 – Mercury stations direct
April 26 – Thereus aspects Chiron and Ceres
April 27 – Mars and Venus aspect Galactic Center, Sedna settles into Gemini for the next 4+ decades
In a nutshell, we are asked to continue protecting, healing, and drawing appropriate boundaries around our bodies, resources, energies, and material assets. There is space for grace and the gift of giving, but only when done in balance.
The role of nurture, the degree to which you give and receive nurture, is strongly highlighted, especially in parent-child relationships (which can map onto connections with other people in your life). Be especially vigilant for hooks in the name of nurture, compassion, and the weaponization of woundedness and victimhood.
We are all at a point in our collective Journey where each individual has access to Spirit (or finding their Path with Spirit) to help them heal and find the resources they need without extracting it from anyone through any means of control. Trust in larger Spirit.
Again, care is sacred, but within reason.
We also see significant activations to the Galactic Center asking us (in different ways and from different layers of our energy bodies) how we choose to navigate our Path. You can call this your Path of Truth, the map of your Journey – I just call it going home to Spirit.
Look at your partner/collaborator/anyone significant showing up for you now – and how you show up for yourself.
What actions are being taken in response to a healthy navigation of energy, karmic dynamics, and other spiritual factors?
What is being occluded, denied, or escaped from?
What is being created from and through Spirit?
What energy do you need to hold in yourself to continue embodying the Free and Fierce Spirit of Creation aligned with the Feminine Principle?
How do you do this effectively?
What relationships, financial decisions, or refinement of action and desire are you being led to now?
What teachers, teachings, pathways, destinations, and ideas are you choosing now?
April 27 is particularly fertile for creative expression of any kind. Just practice the proper safeguards and ensure that your cup of receiving (from which you give) does not have any holes in it. That being said, also ensure that you are not too reliant on someone else having a hole in their cup either!
We can all grow sustainably. There is no need for competition, one-sided drain, control dramas, or parasitism of any kind.
Look at the lessons of Sedna in Gemini for a larger picture of the type of navigation, healing, and practice that would best serve your personal and collective growth. Focus on the limbs, breath, language, expression, sibling connections (where relevant), and how we focus our attention in daily life. Look at how we treat the air and the general environment – there is so much to be done.
Some of you may also see soul connections come to a close or begin a different chapter. Remember that all that happens, happens through free will. You choose your road, and no one has the right to force you to continue a connection that no longer aligns.
What does align will have much more to do with these alignments and their positive potentials.
Have a listen to the video summary for more info.
Blessings and Love
Dr. Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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I have returned from a successful, challenging, deeply rewarding, and meaningful pilgrimage with incredible women in France and Spain. Thank you all for your support.
We will be talking about our experiences in the weeks to come, but am currently recovering and decompressing. I allude to some of our findings and experiences in this video – as part of my more extensive discussion on current sky-events.
On April 21, we will see Jupiter conjunct Uranus at 21 Taurus, whilst trining Thereus Rx and Black Moon Lilith between 20-22 Virgo. Venus and Chiron in Aries and Mars and Nessus in Pisces (to name a few) are also activated by this alignment.
The immediate after-effects of this conjunction will last (at minimum) into early May. The long-term consequences depend upon the choices you make.
On April 23, we will see a powerful Full Moon at 4 Scorpio, squaring Pluto at 2 Aquarius and Cyllarus at 3 Leo, opposing the Sun at 4 Taurus, and conjunct Haumea at 1 Scorpio.
These events create a profound corridor for evolution, transformation, death, rebirth, and more profound, intimate alignment with Spirit. It is the vibration of Rise or Fall.
Do you let go of old karmic cycles that have entrenched you into a holding pattern or some recurrent theme of martyrdom in the name of the greater good?
Or do you cling to them further in the hopes that … this time .. things might (?) change…
That choice is entirely yours to make.
We can and are already seeing significant global weather and seismic events, breakthroughs in research, and major news events simultaneously. Just reading through the scientific breakthroughs announced in the past week tells you that something is up.
The tide of (r)evolution is here, and we are all asked to heed the call.
It’s time to wake up.
And the energy is abuzz with new perspectives, possibilities, and resources.
Those on the path have had the time to learn, grow, and find a community and path that resonates with them. It is now time to commit to those ideological and energetic choices materially.
Look at what teachers, perspectives, communities, and ideas call to you now.
Where can you lay down your deposit?
Where can you commit some material exchange to continue building with kindred spirits or towards a larger ideal?
What practical action are you called to take to walk in further alignment with your soul’s calling?
What are you being asked to walk away from to remain in integrity?
It can come in many different ways especially as Uranus is a wildcard.
For some, it can be a delightful energy that zaps you towards greater abundance, stability, and long-term, sustainable growth within the community.
For others, it can be a profoundly painful wake-up call that shows you, often through a very surprising or disruptive event, what you have not acknowledged.
Have you been building castles in the air with no solid foundation?
Have you been misdirecting your efforts to an ideal that does not really resonate with your Soul?
What occurs and how depends on you. These are just broad strokes of possibility.
It seems unwise to pedestalize the Jupiter-Uranus conjunction as a purely benevolent aspect as Jupiter amplifies whilst Uranus awakens. Neither do so with any guarantee of softness, especially when one refuses to see the writing on the wall.
On top of that, the Jupiter-Uranus conjunction aspects Black Moon Lilith and Thereus in Virgo (and other bodies). The key lesson here is to look at the backdoors through which we allow patterns of loss, theft, codependency, or insecurity.
Often, people leave these backdoors open in the name of kindness or want to help those who need little support. Women, in particular, are encouraged to do this – and it really doesn’t help in the long run.
There is a fine line between providing a sustainable service (no matter how noble it may be) and enabling someone who finds their strength in the identity of victimhood or martyrdom.
No one escapes this life unscathed to some degree – and we have all been victims of something or another. But that’s not the same as staying in the frequency of the victim. For more information on that, see Caroline Myss’ discussion of woundology in her book ‘ Why People Don’t Heal and How They Can’. There’s also some material on this subject on my blog for those interested.
Drawing that line between sustainable service and offering help vs. feeding into the martyr-victim-complex will be one of the toughest lessons for people to learn now, especially if they are empaths, facilitators, or people with backgrounds in providing care.
But that is precisely the work that is required now.
It was a key theme of the pilgrimage as all of us were pushed to the limit. It is a mark of spiritual maturation when one is forced to confront the images, relics, traditions and energies that claim to be the Sacred Feminine … versus what it actually is in practice. More on how this revealed itself in the weeks to come.
This overarching theme – of drawing that line between true service and sacrifice that has bound the Feminine – is the backdrop against which the Jupiter-Uranus conjunction shines. Whatever occurs will ultimately tie into some aspect of that larger question.
Ignoring this opportunity brings with it the risk of misdirecting our energies in ways that add to imbalance rather than resolving them.
I explicate some of the more subtle moral and ethical questions that come up through this trine in the video, followed by a community Q&A.
Just remember – it is Growth Time. So choose your path wisely.
Be clear in shutting the backdoors and saying no to that which is no longer aligned.
You don’t need to make a big song and dance about it or hold onto to any negative emotions. Just walk your path.
This way you and those you choose to support can make the most of the positive potentials of the sky.
Otherwise, it’s akin to trying to fill a bowl with a hole in the bottom.
Be honest with yourself, no matter how uncomfortable it makes you.
Chances are you may find a better solution for everyone concerned or re-frame the situation for a fresh perspective.
Seek to grow in a way that is genuinely aligned with your highest and deepest good – and the highest and deepest good of all.
Just be aware it may not be the cuddliest or softest path. And that is also okay.
Sessions reopen in two days. More information is available to T-23 members as part of their in-depth guidance program.
Many Blessings,
Dr Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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I have some key announcements in this video and a message for the Equinox (Sun in Aries) and the upcoming Eclipses in Libra-Aries. As part of a lively installation of the 64th ‘ Hello, Neighbour! ‘, I also fielded many great questions from the community and had a good laugh with the gang at the end. I also discuss my approach to astrology in light of the need to decolonize the mind and return to a more organic understanding of the Spirit.
Regarding the upcoming pilgrimage, you can find all the information you need on where we are going (specific sites for nightly stays are being tweaked – so please double-check with me if you plan on joining for a particular day). Those who wish to join, please reply to this message within the next one to two days.
The estimated cost per person is 1500 EUR. As a baseline, 1000 covers your shared accommodation, food, and travel costs. For our logistical costs, an additional 500 will go to myself and my co-facilitator, Myriam Negre, or 250 for those joining in part. Some are also contributing in kind by bringing a food truck, helping with cooking, managing logistics and translation, and so on in lieu of the 500 EUR facilitator contribution (but must still manage their other costs themselves).
Here’s where we will be going (which does not reflect the overnight stays)—again, contact me if you want to join in whole, part, or just for a few hours.
April 8 – Marseilles/Arles
April 9 – Toulouse/Lourdes
April 10 – Lourdes
April 11 – near Montserrat
April 12 – Montserrat
April 13 – Barcelona
This pilgrimage has been born of years of devotion, meditation, and uncompromising Faith through intense hardship. It is now time to move into a different phase, and I look forward to seeing what is created with the blessed souls who join.
We will also share parts of our journey with the community (especially on Instagram and YouTube – with some videos available for sale later). .
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The kinds of people who enjoy my sessions the most are those who come with open hearts and minds. They have sat with it and discerned through whether this is the best experience for them. Ultimately, trusting in their choice, they surrender to Spirit and show up without expectation and with grace.
That is the level of preparation I hope all my clients engage in, or at least aspire to.
These sessions are usually the most powerful, life-changing experiences for myself and the client. It is deeply humbling to be able to facilitate and connect with others at that level.
If one does not know the basics of discernment, grounding, conscious surrender – they can also write to me in advance so I can discern through whether this would be a fit for all parties in an aligned and sustainable manner.
Sometimes the sessions are joyful and filled with laughter, sometimes they are challenging, sometimes they are very formal, sometimes they are very gentle. What comes out is tailor-made for each individual, and not just who they are at the conscious level. It honestly varies.
Not everyone enjoys my work, energy or approach, even if they deeply benefit from it.
The modality I use powerfully catalyzes the work of spiritual transformation. This can be an extremely pleasurable, or extremely painful process.
Some people truly enjoy what I do and want more of it. Others can get very put off by it and find it overly intimidating. I get more than my fair share of projection either way – be it as ´saviour´ or ´bully´. Neither identity is one I invest any emotional energy into as truly, it is not about me to begin with.
In the interests of professionalism and acknowledgement, I have prepared this document to ensure that prospective clients meet the prerequisites of my work. Those who do not are advised to wait till they to, or to work with a facilitator who is more appropriate for them.
It is in your interest to be as honest as possible in self-assessment.
To benefit the most from my work one has to :
(1) Already have been on a path of self-inquiry with the assistance of other professionals / facilitators in the field for a good period of time. This usually involves developing a strong psychological foundation, as the prerequisite to spiritual work.
You do not need a degree in the subject or years of experience in the field.
If feel secure in yourself and can take that leap of faith into the unknown – you´re probably alright. Still, please read the rest of this document in full.
(2) Be willing to trust the process of the facilitation and to allow the session to find its own rhythm.
(3) Be cognizant of the fact that spiritual work does not need to fit conventional expectations
(4) Be willing to suspend judgment till the process has had a chance to work (typically by the end of the session).
(5) Be willing to look in the mirror and learn from the reflection. Even if is not pretty.
(6) Have read and understood this document before booking a session.
You may not want to engage with my work if:
(1) You have unresolved emotional traumas that you are unable to acknowledge, identify or be mindful of. In cases like this, I would recommend pursuing a solid foundation of psychological exploration with a competent facilitator.
Spiritual work has a profound effect on the psyche, and if the mind is not ready to hear the truth that is presented, it is liable to distort the message and re-direct the energy in ways that can be truly damaging.
Please also note that this kind of work is one that a professional counselor / psychologist needs to oversee.
Well-meaning support networks (of friends, etc.) can actually reinforce your perception of the world without actually allowing you to see the bigger picture and understand your own blindspots.
Knowing your own astrological chart is also not a substitute for psychological work.
In other words, the work that I do is in no way a substitute for psychological treatments or mental health counseling. If you require this, please look elsewhere.
(2) You have a set expectation of what a spiritual facilitation must look and feel like, or what it is you want to hear and how it is you want to hear it.
The specific energy of each session is different as each individual is different. Sometimes I am guided to stay in an absolutely detached space and at other times – especially when dealing with external influences on the psyche – my work is more impassioned.
Ultimately what I do is not tailored to cater to the emotional needs of the client, but to the kind of experience their Spirit is calling out to receive. And that is not always going to be a joyful process – sometimes the greatest success of the session is the client´s newly-discovered confidence to say: I hated that! And sometimes the success shows in the inner glow that radiates through a being that has forgotten his or her right to happiness.
It really … really .. differs.
In whatever role I am called to play, please be assured there is nothing personal behind any of it. Whilst I am committed to facilitate my clients in their paths of inner transformation, I do not have the time, interest or inclination to draw succour from their discomfort.
The discomfort arises when the expectations of the session do not match the reality of what is experienced.
I need you to first drop your expectations about what you want to hear from me and how you want to hear it.
I deliver the message in the way your Spirit asks me to, drawn from both the astrology of your chart and intuitive guidance. You are likely to discover a whole new Self – or possibly one you knew was buried, waiting to re-emerge.
But First,
Empty The Cup.
(3) You are looking for validation or comfort.
What you think you know (and I what I think I know) about spirituality has got nothing to do with Spirit itself. They are based on mental constructs, maps and frameworks of seeing the world that the ego-mind uses to sustain its view of reality.
The focus of my work is to bring what Spirit has to say to you. It has nothing to do with validating or invalidating your perspective.
Those who have enjoyed this work the most are ones who are willing to see a new vision of themselves with a scope for new possibilities. That requires emptying the cup of the mind and being willing to submerge themselves in the experience.
Those who have enjoyed this work the least come into the session with the expectation that I will make them feel better about themselves.
(4) You are looking for a shoulder to cry on, especially if freshly recovering from intense grief, trauma and so on. Please seek out a counselor. A softer modality is generally required for a time period.
(5) You are wanting to replay family dynamics with the authoritarian/absent/father/mother. Or to play out patterns of rebellion/competition against those perceived as authority figures.
Unless it is a child´s reading (in which case my approach is completely different and parents must be present in any case) – then I´m going to treat you as an adult.
And ask you the difficult questions. Because you don´t come to me to find easy answers.
I require my clients to be responsible and mindful of the energy they bring into my space, just as I will do for them.
(6) You are looking for a Saviour.
Spirit is here to guide everyone. All you are doing in booking a session with me is getting my perspective on it and any attunements that I may do. You are responsible for your own growth.
(7) You are looking for a Bully or a Punching Bag.
My role here is to provide information and attunement.
With the sole exception of external influences that need removal, there is absolutely no need for anyone´s energetic field to invade your space and sovereign energy field in any way, shape of form.
My role here to provide my clients with the perspective they need to empower themselves. It is not a permission or invitation to play out any games of power-dynamics, projection or abuse.
(8) You are looking for an energetic battery for your work and presence in the world.
It is not my responsibility or anyone else´s to power your experiences.
Only you can sustain your life and how you choose act in the world. My work can be a spark to re-ignite systems within the self that have lay abandoned.
But my personal energy is my own.
What I can is do is to suggest ways to cultivate greater personal strength without drawing it from others – myself included.
(9) You are looking for an exorcist, medium, shaman or expert in entity removal
There are those who specialize in these fields – and I would advise looking into these possibilities only when you have exhausted psychological and physical explanations.
(10) You are in a state of extreme vulnerability, agitation, trauma, terror, mania and/or fear.
Whilst no one is 100% healed all of the time, you really need to be in a solid place with yourself before working with me. I bring a very powerful energy of transformation to each session and that can be seen as being damaging, terrifying, intimidating, bullying (you name it) to those who are on insecure footing.
Those who have a solid sense of footing tend to enjoy the process and join in with the dance.
(11) You´re expecting me to be nice, friendly, sweet, cute and/or to sugar-coat the work.
During the session, should I pick upon unpleasant possibilities (such as a potential breakup, illness, death) and/or patterns of behavior that have been unacknowledged it is my responsibility as a facilitator to inform you of this – in much the same way you would expect a doctor who spots an anomaly on your charts to inform you that there are certain possibilities that you need to be aware of.
But remember – nothing is set in stone. Remedies, where possible will be suggested.
In these cases – please do find a different reader. Everyone has a different learning curve and method of facilitation that best suits them. If you choose to continue with working with me, please understand that this is a choice that you consciously make and that you accept full responsibility for the consequences.
My work is deadly serious at the end of the day and I want my clients to be aware of what they´re getting into. Even if some of them giggle through the process ….
If you are not sure whether you are in the state of mind/being that would benefit from my modality – avoid it, or ask me in advance and we can have a conversation about it.
Rather than having very many clients who are not ready for this work, I would rather have fewer numbers of people for whom it will be beneficial. Sometimes it is a case of needing to develop stronger foundations – and sometimes it just comes down to a simple matter of preference.
In addition to this document, please also note the Terms and Conditions worded in your invoices. Read and understand them before committing to a session.
Wishing all of you much love, joy, healing and healthy community.
Dr. Bairavee The Sky Priestess
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